22 articles and counting
      

Women’s Sex Magazine Fails

Scarlet magazine was put into liquidation last month after what seems like a very long demise for the womens sex magazine. It arrived on te scene pregnant with promises of erotic fiction, male totty and explicit sex stories and articles and finished its days a glossy cosmo like mag with little worthy content with an abundance of sex toy shop advertising and sex toy recommendations and very little in the way of quality erotic fiction. Yes a news stand magazine relies on advertising for its continued success but an abundance of advertorial nonsense centred around sex shop 2000’s latest adult gadget fell short of the initial female powered, sex educational material we all anticipated with baited breath. Little did we realise at the time that we would collapse blue faced at Tescos magazine racks waiting for a liberating and intelligent take on women’s sex topics. Oh well we are off to order our first Filament Magazine as we bid farewell to Scarlett

Sex Toys For Women

Vibe Therapy Sex Toys

There are so many sex toy ranges on the market aimed at women nowadays it can be hard to decipher the better quality product from the poorly made tat from the Far east. Manufacturers believe that all they need to do to add some pink to the package, give the sex toy a girly name and hey presto the ultimate female toy. When it comes to todays  buyer there are far greater expectations of their adult aid than a feminine hue and appeasing name, good quality and strong vibrations are pre-requisites, body safe materials an essential and effective, quiet stimulation essential.

Vibe Therapy offers a girls dream when it comes to female sex toys with consistent quality and brilliant design. The sex toy range is made from medical grade silicone and feature seven functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation. The vibrators and rabbit vibrators are to die for but the range doesn’t stop at the mainstream products, the discerning lady can choose from strap ons, double dildos and duo balls for internal stimulation and tone.

Cock Rings For Couples Fun

What is a cock ring? A ring that fits around the base of the penis and grips there. Cock rings can make the penis harder for longer and give clitoral stimulation during sex. Love Rings basically work by restricting the blood flow away from the penis. Once the cock is fully erect the ring holds the blood inside the shaft instead of allowing it to pump back out again. The ring should be slipped down to the base of the penis once erect and can even be pulled around the testicles for massive support. Choose a cock ring with a vibrator attached and it will also stimulate the clitoris during sex. Rings such as the dinky banger or 4 Us Vibrating Ring massage the woman’s clitoral area during the rubbing motion of intercourse and bring on climax when many women can’t orgasm during sex alone.

If you are trying a cock ring for the first time using an adjustable ring can be a great way to start as it allows you to adjust the band gradually for a perfect fit. Don’t wear your cock ring for longer than 30 minutes at a time and avoid them if you have circulation or nerve problems. Otherwise enjoy they are a versatile and pleasurable couples sex aid.

The Art Of Touch

People often assume that touching consists of one or two techniques when in fact there are numerous ways to touch your lover. Pressure, direction, stroke and the motion of your fingertips all play a part in the sensual stimulation your lover receives. Don’t forget that also the primary touch can give way to a secondary stimulation. For example sucking the nipple can trigger the nerve in the genital region giving rise to pleasure or by stroking the pubic bone the base of your lovers penis may feel sensation or inside the clitoral area for a woman. Think of your nerves as a complex map beneath your skin and the caress in one area can give rise to pleasure in another. The enjoyable part is discovering which areas of your partner lead to sensual sexual pleasure, make a journey over their body map and linger when they react with arousal.

Spicing up your sex life

When your sex life is on the down and you want to bring it back to the full on sexual fests of the days you first met how do you bridge the gap between sex once a month to sex once a week or even day. I’m not talking about going through the motion of missionary position until he comes and she can get up and go back to whatever was taking her attention but real physical and emotional connection whereby both parties feel satisfied and valued.

The problem with routine is breaking the habit  and this takes a firm commitment to spending quality physical time together. You may think to yourself what is it I am trying to give up? the answer is lethargy, disinterest and a lazy attitude towards pleasing your partner. Think about what you are trying to ignite and the answers are clear, a desire to please your partner and make them feel sexually satsfied, eroticism, sensual delights, sexual experimentation, fantasies and commitment. The results of an improved sexual relationship spread far and wide and permeate into all areas of your relationship as trust developes and an improved bonding arises between you.

When we look at improving your sex life communication is key and both of you need to talk about your expectations in the bedroom. Decide what you both want from your physical relationship and open up communication regarding your desires and fantasies, what you do and don’t get from your sexual relationship and what you would like to achieve. Buy a sex guide or look on the internet for sex tips and couples sex toys . Choose different positions to try and experiment with an open mind that not everything will feel pleasurable for you both. Don’t argue or judge one another the atmosphere in the bedroom needs to be one of complete trust. Sometimes a sex aid or marital aid is a good addition to your sex life and a necessary one for certain problems during intercourse. Sex Toys no longer belong on the shelves of seedy sex shops but shine in the erotic boutiques and female/couple friendly online sex shops in their hundreds. Choose something simple to begin such as a cock ring. This sex toy involves you both and benefits you both as the ring helps to prolong erection whilst a vibrating version massages the female clitoris to orgasm. If you feel that vibrators or dildos preclude one of you then opt for a sex lubricant or massage oil for sensual touch or some soft bondage for  playful restraint.Try different  Sex toys and sex positions until you find a selection that suits as one sort doesn’t fit all.

Remember to be consistent in your love making and accept one anothers wishes and desires it will benefit you both all round!

Couples Sex Toys

There are many reasons why couples sex toys can improve a partners sex life. Bringing sex toys into the bedroom can be a daunting issue for some but the pleasure to be derived from adult toys can also be immense. On a physical level sex toys can help partners reach new heights of sexual pleasure and enable both parties to experience orgasm when perhaps one person couldn’t climax during love making. Sex toys can improve performance and help maintain a male erection during times when perhaps the strength of erections fade.

On an emotional level sex toys can bond couples and create an intimacy, trust and shared enjoyment to not only spice up your sex life but improve your emotional connection. A good sex toy to begin your couples play is the cock ring. The penis ring helps to keep the erection nice and strong but also if you choose a vibrating version the cock ring can also massage the clitoris and bring on orgasm during sex. Couples can enjoy a firmer penis and female climax completely hands free! The mini vibrator or clitoral vibrator is also a great choice for couples. When having sex adopt a position which enables the female to reach down and massage the clitoral area  for an amazing orgasm which penetration alone cannot always bring on. There is also no reason why vibrators cannot be used on both partners erogenous zones, try running a buzzing bullet around the tip of your partners penis and along the shaft or use g spot vibrators on you both for prostate and g spot stimulation.

Jessica Rabbit at Loving Joy

We have all heard of the Jessica Rabbit Vibe and it has cropped up in many an incarnation but a new adult goods brand has appeared on the block and its range of Rabbit Vibrators has really caught our eye. Loving Joy is a UK Sex Toy brand which encompasses style, technology and body safe material in an irresistible and Joyous package. The presentation leaves us girls feeling good about our vibrator choice and this range of Rabbit Vibrators has a character to suit every taste.

The original Jessica seems to resemble any other Rabbit Vibrator incarnation but Loving Joys vibe is fully waterproof and body safe, very different from the usual roll of sex toys to make it here from China. The quality of the Jessica Rabbits is a cut above the rest but do not prohibit ownership with designer sex toy price tags!

The Ultimate Plus is certainly another vibrator is impress, this Jessica Rabbit is bigger than its sisters with a girth that really feels the space. Rabbits have long failed to satisfy in this area and the Plus gives a nice full massage whilst the clitoral vibrator goes to work stimulating the labia.  How long have us girls been waiting for a rabbit vibrator that really satisfies?

g-spot

A final heads up is for a g-spot rabbit that is slim, sleek and angled to massage the sensitive walls of the vagina with ease. Loving Joy G Spot Slim is perfectly proportioned for g-spot massage. Despite all the doubt cast about the existence of the G us girls know that we have a special place for pleasure and loving joy have got the size and shape just right. Enjoy!

Get To Grips With His Member

When it comes to pleasing your man a good hand job always does the trick. Choosing a male masturbator is a great way to treat him to a sensual wank but using your hands in a series of grips will have him moaning with ecstatic joy. Don’t forget the sex lubricant and choose from the following hand job techniques to make you a master of his masturbation.

The OK – grip your man’s penis forming the ok sign with your thumb and finger tips touching and gently rub with emphasis on the head and join of the shaft.

The U – Form a U shape with the fingers and palm of the hand, as if you are about to grip something with a wide opening. Pull the shaft with your thumb maintaining contact against the shaft and head, keeping the wrist loose and stroking in a diagonal direction.

Sausage Roll – Enclose his penis in your hot palm with the fingers gripping around the shaft according to his preference.

Upside Down Sausage Roll – Adopt the same cock inside warm mitt position but turn the hand with the thumb facing downwards instead of up

Two Fister – Take his cock in both your fists and pump either gently or harder depending on is sexual response.

Je Joue has super sexy toy follow up

British sex toy designers Je Joue have launched the G-Ki, the follow up to the tremendously delicious Je SaSi. SaSi was billed as the worlds first smart sex toy responding to each individual woman’s sex toy needs based on her usage. The new G-Ki is following up with another intelligent design based sex toy in that it is the worlds first adjustable g spot vibrator. Je Joue recognise that every woman is unique and this sex toy allows for adjustment to suit an individuals sex toy use. G-Ki suits all body shapes, vibrator preferences, massage choices and is a couples sex toy as well as a woman’s g spot sex aid. As well as the perfect massager  G-Ki has no obvious re-charging points and uses contact charging through the vibration control buttons. The waterproof sex toy has 10 different vibration settings and is available in four colours-we know what we want from Santa this year!

sexy curve appeal at xcite

41WUjqpuKDL._SL500_AA240_

The statistics report that almost half of all women in the UK are over a size 16 and Xcite Books has launched the first of its erotic books aimed at the curvy sexy women and those that love them. The collection of 20 erotic stories are about the big and beautiful women and a celebration of their curves, written by the best names in erotic fiction the ultimate curves edition will certainly be a best seller. In addition to the erotic content aimed at bigger women Accent Press have also launched a lingerie range and dating website for bigger babes. Accent Press Managing Director Hazel Cushion has said that the tide is turning against the skinny minny with the size o persona turning lots of people off. The ultimate Curves is a endorsement of just how super sexy curvy women can be and reinforces a positive image for the many size 16+ ladies in the UK. Many of the sensual characters featured in erotic fiction are thin and slight and none seem to celebrate the voluptuous woman. The short collection of erotic stories certainly does turn the tide with the message that you don’t have to be skinny to be sexy and full bodied women ooze sex appeal.